The hobby moves fast. Very fast. Drops typically sell out in seconds, Dutch auctions bait us into panic buying, countdown timers push us toward impulsive decisions, and social feeds bombard us with highlights of what everyone else is buying or hitting out of latest product. With new, high-priced sets dropping at a relentless pace, the hobby quickly turns into a “flavor of the week”. Our attention spans shrink, and what felt like an exciting must-have
So often, the purchases we regret the most aren’t the ones we planned for—they’re the ones we made in the heat of an emotion. A fight with a partner. A stressful day at work. A painful memory resurfacing. Even something as simple as boredom or loneliness. These are the moments when our defenses are down and the urge to “fix” the feeling with a quick hit of excitement, distraction, or escape becomes strongest—without considering the
In a social media landscape driven by algorithms and clout, it’s easy to mistake numbers for real impact. Followers, views, likes—metrics that make us feel like “bigger” automatically means “better”. But when it comes to building something with real meaning, I’ve learned that one high-quality community member is worth far more than a thousand people chasing a cheap thrill. This lesson comes into sharp focus in the hobby. On platforms like Whatnot and Fanatics Live,
If you’ve ever loved an addict, you know it’s not just their battle—it becomes part of your life too. That’s why groups like Al-Anon, Gam-Anon, and Nar-Anon exist. They aren’t just there to “teach” you what your loved one is going through. They’re there to help you understand it on a deeper level—and hopefully move from understanding to empathy. Understanding vs. EmpathyUnderstanding is about knowing the facts: what the addiction is, how it works, what behaviors it causes. Empathy is
Yesterday, Rob Veres of Burbank Cards posted a video that struck a chord with me—and I think it’s something everyone in the hobby should hear. His message was simple but powerful: the hobby needs a reset. Rob talked about how, 10–20 years ago, card shops were designed for collecting. You could walk in and find sets, players, and topics to build your collection around. Dealers had something for everyone. Now, too many retailers and dealers
Are you a high-achieving professional experiencing burnout? You’re not alone. Many of my clients are high-achieving, high-performing individuals—executives, business owners, and leaders—who are incredibly successful in their careers, yet feel exhausted, anxious, and mentally drained. Often, these are the people everyone relies on for guidance, problem-solving, and leadership. They’re always “on”, constantly managing work, relationships, and personal commitments. Over time, this can lead to burnout, poor stress management, and the feeling of being unable to
Each year, we expect a slight fluctuation in prices across industries—it’s part of market trends: inflation, supply and demand, and the natural ebb and flow of production costs. But in the hobby, the bar keeps moving, drastically—and not in the right direction. Today, 2025 Topps Finest Baseball hit shelves at an eye-watering $500 per hobby box. Let’s rewind: last year’s 2024 release sold for $300 a box—with a better rookie class and arguably a better
Your collection should be a sanctuary, not a scoreboard. It should be the place you turn to when you want to reconnect with a memory, a passion, or a piece of your own story—not a running tally of how you stack up against someone else. In today’s hobby culture, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Social media feeds overflow with showcase posts, “record sales” headlines, and highlight reels of jaw-dropping mail days.
A truth hurts for a minute. A lie hurts forever. This was one of the first mantras I heard when I started attending Gamblers Anonymous, and it’s stuck with me ever since. Those words are simple—but they hit deep. When I was addicted to spending money on cards, I kept it hidden. I lied to my wife. I lied to my friends. I lied to myself. I was drowning in shame and embarrassment. And when the
Travis LaVanway, @montananorseman This month, we’re proud to feature Travis LaVanway (@montananorseman)—a true embodiment of what it means to collect with intention. Travis first joined us after being one of two winners in our Collector Appreciation Giveaway #2, but it didn’t take long for him to become a cornerstone member of the Collectors MD community. He’s been a tremendous supporter, showing up for our weekly peer-support meetings without fail, engaging daily in our group chat,
One of the biggest reasons investing in sports cards—or even the stock market—has become so popular is because it creates the feeling of being directly connected to someone else’s success. Owning a rookie card of a player you admire can feel like holding a piece of their journey, as if their achievements on the field or court are in some way your victories too. The same goes for investing in a company you respect—you follow
One of the hardest things to say out loud—sometimes even to ourselves—is: “I think I have a problem”. In a hobby built on hype, celebration, and curated mail days, admitting that collecting has started to hurt more than it helps can feel like betrayal. To the culture. To your image. To the version of you that once found joy in the chase. But the truth is, many of us have been there—struggling behind the scenes
